"Sometimes people use “respect” to
mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect”
to mean “treating someone like an authority”
And
sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say
“if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they mean “if you
won’t treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person”
And they think they’re being fair but they aren’t, and it’s not okay."