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A little while ago tonight, I went outside to enjoy the cooler night air and the stars, and one of the neighbourhood cats (“NP”) was waiting for me. We had a good long session of me giving NP pats and scritches, but I came back in and slept for a while. I’ve been using biphasic sleep for quite some time now, so now I’m awake, and have been thinking about connection with other sentient beings - friendships, in a word.
After a nightmare career in a strongly patriarchal industry, I didn’t want any human connection: I needed time out to recover and heal. Coming up to three years after retirement, I have been ready for more connection - craving more connection.
I have some excellent online friendships, I am friends with several neighbourhood cats, I have some nonphysical connections with astral and extraterrestrial entities (although those could be stronger - which is my fault, mainly, although relationships with BPM Guides can feel a bit like connecting to a teacher, at times - and that is a reflection on the flaws of how I was taught initially, back in the 1980s), and a few excellent IRL friendships (with family and friends).
I am also relearning how to establish new friendships with people IRL through a community connections programme.
So ... I have some good, and am getting some new connections. I’m feeling probably as close to sociable as I can get, but life has some blocks to this as well.
We have a rescue dog who doesn’t cope with new people, and the systems for managing her take some time and consideration, so people cannot just drop in.
I also have a family member with a major illness that requires management of infection risks in our house, and that is a major block on meeting people - whether new to my life or an established friendship, and is likely to be so for two years.
In the midst of this, I am trying to get a business going, which means connections with clients.
So ... life has some complexities around connections.
Another issue that others may see as a complexity but I don’t is that I dislike the superficial, performative expectations of neurotypical culture - the sort of amathiac rubbish of young people getting drunk together are therefore friends.
That leads to unhealthy, horrible lives, and creates potential victims of E_st__n type networks.
And there is one other factor in all this: death.
In the astral, distance is more a function of how harmonious/disharmonious the connection between you and others is. Incarnation is like being a G note put into a bottle and then onto a plane with other bottles containing other notes.
When the bottle dissolves (representing death of the physical in this instance), the notes will find themselves with other notes that resonate at a harmonious frequency.
Moving away from the analogy, it means that our lives on the astral and higher planes will likely be rich with enjoyable, loving, connections.
That is healing, but it can also restrict awareness of the variety of life, and potentially cause some complacency, which is why the physical levels of existence were created.
The good news is, having learned how to live constructively and lovingly on the physical, you will have developed the skills that will enable you to overcome those two risks in the astral - thereby allowing you to make a deeper and richer contribution to the astral realms.
And that is also what we have to here on the physical - live constructively and lovingly and make a deeper and richer contribution to the physical realms.
And right now, that includes resisting fascism, and being anti-evil - especially to anything along the lines of the E_st__n type networks.
A final personal note: my family and I helped a young man in Africa get through uni a few years ago, but he is now facing a life threatening illness. That has also promoted some thoughts about connectedness.
Possible flaws
Where I can, I will try to highlight possible flaws / issues you should consider:
- there may be flawed logical arguments in the above: to find out more about such flaws and thinking generally, I recommend Brendan Myers’ free online course “Clear and Present Thinking”;
- I could be wrong - so keep your thinking caps on, and make up your own minds for yourself.
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