Post No. 3,461 - The power of story telling

I noticed something recently, something which sounds minor:   I invited someone into my room (which is my bedroom, office, cranky exercise gym, personal storage bunker, launching pad for astral forays, meditation retreat, etc) - to their surprise. 

And I realised the change that no longer being as actively involved in heavy psychic work has made. 

Previously, other than two other people, coming into my room could disrupt some of the ongoing psychic work that was happening (it is possible to set up psychic work [aka “spells”] to be ongoing without active human involvement - including such work with crystals) - in fact, I had to stop doing more sensitive work healing and strengthening newborns /prem babies when the step kids in one relationship wouldn’t stop coming in to my (shared with their parent) bedroom (and they also started interrupting heavier work, to their potential harm - but that was a boundary I was not prepared to let anyone cross). 

That realisation led me to also think about the impact of communication, and I realised storytelling (in the sense of relaying experience in a human, not a dispassionate technical report, manner) is something is something I should be doing more of - about the psychic work I have done in the past, with the Substack article I did about telepathy in a 1980s workplace being an example, and the Ranger short stories I did on my creativity blog being a generalised example of that. 

There can be problems with this - confidentiality is an obvious one, the sensitivity of some of the work, people getting focused on trivial details rather than lessons, ego, etc - and, fairly obviously, I can’t write about anything which is currently ongoing for the privacy and safety of those doing that work. 

Despite all that, I’ve decided I should try to write a little more about the psychic work I have done in the past. 

And now to come up with a few ideas, and somehow find the time and energy to do so. I still have family care duties, my own health issues, etc - and I’ve been trying  to finish a story for the family of my young friend in Africa, so don’t expect anything too soon ...  

Possible flaws 

Where I can, I will try to highlight possible flaws / issues you should consider: 

• there may be flawed logical arguments in the above: to find out more about such flaws and thinking generally, I recommend Brendan  Myers’ free online course “Clear and Present Thinking”;  
• I could be wrong - so keep your thinking caps on, and make up your own minds for yourself.
  

 

 

Gnwmythr 

teaching the "good" (balanced positive and spiritually mature) 
safe ways to counter the "bad" (out of balance, spiritually immature) 

 

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Post No. 3,460 - Emotional violence

I recently read a media article in which a (so-called? Probably has tertiary qualifications - that’s my annoyance, expressing itself mildly violently) stated that one of the most significant signs of an imminent relationship breakup is when those in it stop arguing. 

What utter rubbish. 

Relationships do NOT have to involve argument - there may be disagreement, and there will be need to discuss matters, but that does not mean those have to be done violently - i.e., through an argument, rather than a discussion, intense thought the discussion may be. 

The attitude that violent communication, as opposed to non-violent communication, or what used to be referred to as clear and assertive communication, is somehow ... “normal” conflates acceptability and commonality. 

Slavery used to be considered “normal” because it was widespread: It was not, however, in any way what could be considered a “normal” state of humanity, and relied on extensive conditioning of people and perverted social systems and “norms” for its existence.  

The opinion by an expert that arguments are “normal” contributes to society adopted a social norm (which is a different matter) that such violent communication is acceptable, and that contributes, in a small but significant way, towards the normalisation of other forms of violence - particularly emotional violence that is not accompanied by physical violence, 

That emotional violence is something I see in too many dramas (mostly movies, but also some fiction books), and the rejection of the perspective I am proposing by people who are aware of and reject the various forms of physical violence is a spiritual flaw, one which shows that they are more competent at word wars and than physical wars (something I have been aware f since I was a teenager - and not only from observing queen bee and wannabe queen bee teenage girls, but also some teenage boys who had what used to be called “the gift of the gab”), but have not yet learned to rise above such arbitrary and self imposed violence - which is to gain a sense of meaning or that their existence is notable - to a genuinely BPM patient and inclusive way of being. 

We need people to commit to doing better in their interactions - aim to be inclusive, healing, and uplifting, rather than what is truly a form of emotional violence.  

 

One day I hope someone with better word skills than I expands on what I have written here, and makes it understandable & acceptable to others - especially academics. 

 

(BTW, I can also see the hero arc in many dramas, but based on society being reduced the main characters in the film/book - and possibly those in the relationship [including any third party or influencing person].)  

 

Possible flaws 

Where I can, I will try to highlight possible flaws / issues you should consider: 

• there may be flawed logical arguments in the above: to find out more about such flaws and thinking generally, I recommend Brendan  Myers’ free online course “Clear and Present Thinking”;  
• I could be wrong - so keep your thinking caps on, and make up your own minds for yourself.
  

 

 

Gnwmythr 

teaching the "good" (balanced positive and spiritually mature) 
safe ways to counter the "bad" (out of balance, spiritually immature) 

 

If you appreciated this post, please share it. I am now on SubStack, Patreon, 
and you can support me at PayPal (or PayPal Repeating Support Options) or Ko-Fi 
Any and all support will be greatly appreciated, and will aid me in continuing this work 

 

Remember: we generally need to be more human being rather than human doing, to mind our Mӕgan, and to acknowledge that all misgendering is an act of active transphobia/transmisia that puts trans+ lives at risk & accept that all insistence on the use of “trans” as a descriptor comes with commensurate use of “cis” as a descriptor to prevent “othering” (just as binary gendered [men’s and women’s] sporting teams are either both given the gender descriptor, or neither).

#PsychicABetterWorld   and  

Note that I am cutting back on aspects of my posts - see here, and Gnwmythr is pronounced new-MYTH-ear  

Copyright © Kayleen White 2007-2026     NO AI   I do not consent to any machine learning aka Artificial Intelligence (AI), generative AI, large language model, machine learning, chatbot, or other automated analysis, generative process, or replication program to reproduce, mimic, remix, summarise, or otherwise  replicate any part of this post or other posts on this blog via any means. Typo’s may be inserrted deliberately to demonstrate this is not an AI product.     Otherwise, fair and reasonable use is accepted under Creative Commons 4.0 on an Attribution-ShareAlike basis https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/