In yesterday’s
Gnwmythr’s News I included the following:
an excellent radio programme on not getting sucked in by “self help” materials (comments along the lines of it being more important to be a decent person, with hints at virtue philosophy) – and the book is available here.
(The
book’s details are “Stand Firm: Resisting the Self-Improvement Craze”, by Svend
Brinkmann,
Professor of Psychology, Department of Communication and Psychology, Aalborg
University, Denmark; pub. Polity, 2017, ISBN 978-1509514267. )
I consider one of the main problems in this
world in the addiction to emotions.
Now, emotions have a valid and
important purpose, but conflating
us with our emotions is as mistaken as conflating us with our thoughts
alone or us with our physical existence only. From my quotations
and sayings page:
Like fire to the physical, emotions to the soul make a good servant, and a bad master.
Emotions are most fully realised on the astral (which has two levels – lower, connected to
the solar
plexus chakra,
and upper, connected to the heart
chakra),
but there are other levels
of reality
(or, if you came from the other side of
the tracks, maybe you prefer the equally but not more valid term planes of
existence) which focus on other equally valid aspects of reality – e.g.,
mental planes, where key ideas and principles such as love, freedom, growth,
etc are focused on in their purest, raw essence.
That is what we are questing for, in many
cases, as we explore emotions and how they affect us, and how to constructively
manifest and use emotions (that all means
that Emotional
Intelligence is absolutely crucial … but so too is Spiritual Intelligence,
which is close to what I mean by BPM).
And, in that context, the book and
interview I linked to yesterday were like a breath of fresh air (albeit fresh air also associated with some
of Brendan Myers’
work – the stuff on virtue
ethics).
It can be more important to be a decent
human being than to be a happy human being (paraphrasing
slightly).
Yes – absolutely!
And, on that, lately it has got up my nose when
people get involved in activism superficially out of a sense of outrage, but in
reality because they want to have a sense of connection or to get warm fuzzies.
That leads to harmful mistakes, inappropriate reactions to valid criticisms,
and generally stops the real changes that need to be made being properly and
effectively addressed.
If you’re not involved in these things for
the right reasons – i.e., the ideas and principles – get out of the way before
you do real damage.
And on such things, I recently caught up
with a friend of mine, J. J’s a very experienced political woman, having stood
as a candidate at all three levels of government in Australia and having given
the lobby (sorry: community activist
group – I loathe the loss of the term lobby to commercial
influencers) I was involved with the late 1990s invaluable advice, and I
had – some time ago – arranged to catch up when I was thinking about standing as
an independent candidate for the upper house in my state next year. We’re both
busy, and work had intruded on the previous time we thought we’d be able to
catch up, so it had been a while, and in the interim, I had decided that I
couldn’t, despite it having been on a bucket list of mine, in good faith
nominate.
The key reasons for that were,
incidentally, that: (1) the company I work for does a fair bit of work for
government-connected bodies (water
Authorities), so I would have to take extended leave for the election
campaign, and cannot financially afford to do that; (2) if I did get elected, despite my
chances of being elected being more remote than the Kuiper
Belt, I (a) have concerns that my help would not hold up, and (b) I would
have to put my psychic and spiritual work on hold because of the demands on
elected representatives (80 hour weeks
are common); and (3) my families have no real idea what would hit them (and my previous relationship would be an
electoral liability).
So, that dream is shot – for this lifetime,
at any rate.
Nevertheless, J and I had a good chat,
about politics and other matters. J had been giving a few advice about standing
for election, as it turns out, and maybe she should set herself up doing that
as a business :) We also chatted about work, and J commented that, in the last
few years, everyone she knows is feeling stressed about work, which wasn’t the
case when she was younger.
That is also my experience, and I made a
comment at the time about the effect of the GFC,
but, now, thinking about the matter, I have remembered that it goes back further
– to the proto-neoliberals called “economic
rationalists”. Of course, they, to some extent, arose because of a combination
of abuses of power by parts of the union movement (e.g., the BLF
[which also did a lot of good], the rampant misogyny towards women of parts of
the CFMEU
and the rabid homophobia of the Shop,
Distributive and Allied Employees Association, all of which has done
ENORMOUS damage to the union movement – and thus workers’ - and other - human
rights), the general decline of awareness of “soft” social issues since the
end of the Victorian era, and the rise of business propaganda (aka “marketing”) and the massive
increase in consumerism that has happened since the early 1900s.
In any case, what it all boils down to is
that, socially, as well as economically and environmentally, we are in trouble.
I’ve heard a few politicians in radio
interviews talking about this of late, which is good, but we aren’t doing
enough. What I consider needs to happen is a sequence of meetings, which can
perhaps broadly be conceived as something along the lines of what led to the Hawke
Government’s
Prices
and Income Accord:
- meetings between all relevant parties, initially in each State, and then leading up to a National conference;- “relevant parties” includes workers (both union and not), unpaid workers such as homekeepers, big and small business groups, consumers, health services, education, academics, relevant commentators (if I could, I would include a few philosophers), etc;- considered discussions are held beforehand via email, etc, with time enforced for thinking and, if necessary, researching before replying;- at the conferences, the same avoidance of time limits and focus on thinking, knowledge and knowledge gaps, etc to be maintained;- aspects to be covered include the imminent crisis owing to automation etc, needs to enable all people to adapt, support services required for all people (at present, thinking usually cuts out for older people), social impacts equally as much as how to finance, and so on.
In referring to needs, one of the things I
have in mind is that if more business people had better emotional intelligence
and treated their workers as human beings instead of economic units, they would
probably be able to get the flexibility they want with far less social disruption
and personal damage to their workers: businesses are not the army –
giving orders is NOT the best way!
(Another
issue here is cycles in the business world: I’ve now seen several new, young
leaders come in enthusiastically promoting the simplistic ideas of their
progenitors as they had come up with it themselves – and that, in addition to
the obvious refusal to learn from history, also shows a failure of business schools
to admit that there are greater forces in the economy that they cannot control.
This failing also includes pressure to cut out procedures and simplify ways of
working, which then lead to problems that the previous generation fixed by the
procedures etc that had just been cut out or cut back, and these are then
excitedly reinstituted under a new name as if they are new. I had a great talk
with a colleague this week who had attended an excellent lecture on this in the
bridge engineering sector.)
This idea – future proofing work - was one
of my main motivations for considering being elected: I’ll now have to find
another way to get it to happen :)
I apologise for publishing these posts
twice, but Blogger keeps changing my formatting. I can either publish it and
then correct it, or save and close the post and correct it when I reopen it,
but that leaves an extra copy in my "drafts" folder ...
Love, light, hugs and blessings
Gnwmythr
(pronounced "new-MYTH-ear")
Pagan Energy Worker, Wéofodthegn, Bellatrix Lux, Venatrix Maga, would-be Drýicgan.
(pronounced "new-MYTH-ear")
Pagan Energy Worker, Wéofodthegn, Bellatrix Lux, Venatrix Maga, would-be Drýicgan.
I started this blog to cover karmic regression-rescue
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learning how to flame, ground
and shield, do alternate
nostril breathing, work
with colour, and see also here and be
flexible.
May the best in me, my Higher Self,
and those of the Clear Light who assist me,
help me to keep myself grounded, centred and shielded,
to be Balanced and a Fulcrum of Balance,
a centre of Balanced Positivity and Spiritual Maturity,
with my aura continuously cleansed, cleared and closed,
repelling all negative or unwanted energies,
whilst allowing positive, balancing and healing energies in and through.
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First published: Sunnudagr, 21st May, 2017
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