Post No. 540 - A comment on a sacrilege

I'd like to comment on an issue that has come to my attention because of the Wild Hunt post here, which was updated in the post here, about a pagan who has (allegedly, at this stage) admitted to child abuse. The posts included a link to Brendan Myers' post "Whatever happened to the pagan community statement on religious sexual abuse?". I was appalled to read that some people wanted to have non-consensual (even undiscussed beforehand!) sexual elements to initiations. It is bad enough that there is unnecessary rigmarole to initiations anyway, but to include such abuse (and one woman I knew many years ago told me of one such event, but she chose not to take any action on it, and I haven't heard of any others, although these posts make me think there no doubt have been) in an event that is supposed to be sacred, is not only violence, an abuse of power and illegal, it   is   sacrilege.

All acts of love and pleasure are sacred to me, saith the Goddess. If there is no consent (and children cannot give a fair dinkum consent!), there is no pleasure on the part of the victim.

Brendan Myers' post includes links to good comments about ethical issues, and the comments suggest adding acknowledging the emotions of the victim, and a need to avoid a sex-negative perspective. I'm going to have a read of the full version of the proposed statement and comments, which is here, and possibly post on this again.

PS - this is also an excellent post relating to this.


[1] BPLF = Balanced Positive (spiritual) Light Forces. See here and here for more on this.

Love, light, hugs and blessings

Gnwmythr 
(pronounced "new-MYTH-ear"; ... aka Bellatrix Lux? Morinehtar? Would-be drýicgan ... )

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• Don't be mediocre - seek to excel.  
• Gnwmythr's Stropping Strap: Occam's Razor only works if  the simplest solution is actually recognised as being the simplest, rather than the one that best fits one's bigotries being labelled 'simplest'.
• Our entire life experience, with all the many wondrous and varied people, places and events in it, is too small a sample for statistical reliability about Life.
• May the world of commerce and business be recognised to be a servant, not a master, of the lives of people.
• Ban the dream interpretation industry! 
• A home is for living in, not feeling, becoming or being rich or a “better” class than others.
• Housework is for ensuring a home is comfortable to live in, not competing to outdo or belittle others.
• Being accustomed to interacting via certain rules makes those rules neither right nor universal. 
• Like fire to the physical, emotions to the soul make a good servant, and a bad master. 
• Expertise at intimacy and emotional happiness is generally not the same thing as spiritual growth.
• "Following the crowd" is not "going with the flow".
• Armageddon is alive and well and happening right now: it is a battle between the indolence of "I only ..." and/or "I just ..." and/or "Everyone knows ... " and/or "they can ..." and what Bruce Schneier [2] calls "security theatre" on one side, and perspicacity and the understanding that the means shape the end on the other. Indolence vs. perspicacity, and expediency vs. honour.
• The means shape the end.  
• BPLF restraint of uncooperatives is NOT an opportunity for revenge or getting even - even unconsciously. 
• As words can kill, the right to freedom of speech comes with a DUTY to be as well-informed, objective and balanced as you can be.
• My favourite action movie of all time is "Gandhi", although I've recently come across "Invictus" and might put that one in to that category. However, I loathe the stereotypical action movie - and, for similar reasons, I loathe many dramas, which are often emotionally violent, more so in some cases than many war films. 
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Females, get over 'cute'. Get competent. Get trained. Get capable. Get over 'cute'. And those of you who are called Patty and Debby and Suzy, get over that. Because we use those names to infantalise females – we keep females in their 'little girl' state by the names we use for them. Get over it. If you want to be taken seriously, get serious. JANE ELLIOTT 

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Too much and too long, we seem to have surrendered community excellence and community values in the mere accumulation of material things. Our gross national product ... if we should judge America by that -- counts air pollution and cigarette advertising, and ambulances to clear our highways of carnage. ... Yet the gross national product does not allow for the health of our children, the quality of their education, or the joy of their play. It does not include the beauty of our poetry or the strength of our marriages; the intelligence of our public debate or the integrity of our public officials. It measures neither our wit nor our courage; neither our wisdom nor our learning; neither our compassion nor our devotion to our country; it measures everything, in short, except that which makes life worthwhile." ROBERT F. KENNEDY 1968

Tags: abuse of power, sex, violence,

First published: Laugadagr, 5th April, 2014

Last edited (excluding fixing typo's and other minor matters): Sunday, 14^th April, 2014 (added postscript)