Wednesday 4 June 2014

Post No. 559 - Children are not future slaves

Well, the current Pope has made another idiotic statement. He's mostly actually been rather good (particularly in terms of poverty and some of the excesses of the neochristian catholic sect), but he has made a few clangers. The latest one is about having kids so you won't be lonely in your old age.

What? Are older people not capable of making friends?

That's a bit like saying oldies can't have sex.

Dear pope (he doesn't deserve capitals today), get a grip

Children do not exist for the task of looking after their parents - they are independent, separate beings who exist in their own right, for their own selves. They do not have to justify their existence in terms of how they somehow 'repay' an alleged debt for their parents having had and raised them! In fact, any 'parent' who (genuinely - I know some do this as a joke) claims that their kids 'owe' them and must look after said 'parent' in their dotage cannot EVER claim to love their kids, in my view.

Their statements show them to be manufacturing old age insurance, not lovingly guiding the childhood and teenage years of separate, independent human beings.

That, of course, would include anyone who was stupid enough to follow the pope's latest pontification.

Now, if the kids CHOOSE to care for said parents out of love (I'm currently working with my adoptive sister at helping our elderly, fragile and ill [adoptive] father go through some MAJOR changes - and this blog is suffering while all this is being sorted - for which I make no apologies), that is wonderful. It's also probably a fair indication that said parents were actually pretty reasonable.

That was certainly the case with my adoptive Dad (who was recently summed up - fittingly - as always a lovely gentleman, throughout his entire life), but that's not always the case. Some kids are orphans ... some 'parents' are neglectful or abusive - and that can, in some cases, because of the neochristian catholic sect's views on procreation and sex.

Things are not always good, and deserving (on both sides of the age divide) ... and blame may lie in strange places.

Better to plan to be as capable, healthy (exercise!) and self reliant an oldie as you can, for as long as you can - and love those in your family for the sake of loving them, not for some sort of reward.
 

[1] BPLF = Balanced Positive (spiritual) Light Forces. See here and here for more on this.

[2] Please see here and my post "The Death of Wikipedia" for the reasons I now recommend caution when using Wikipedia. I'm also exploring use of h2g2, although that doesn't appear to be as extensive (h2g2 is intended - rather engagingly - to be the Earth edition of "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy").

Love, light, hugs and blessings


Gnwmythr, Wéofodthegn 
(pronounced "new-MYTH-ear"; ... aka Bellatrix Lux? … Morinehtar? … Would-be drýicgan ... )

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  • Gnwmythr's Stropping Strap: Occam's Razor only works if  the simplest solution is actually recognised as being the simplest, rather than the one that best fits one's bigotries being labelled 'simplest'.
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  • Like fire to the physical, emotions to the soul make a good servant, and a bad master.
  • Expertise at intimacy and emotional happiness is generally not the same thing as spiritual growth.
  • Any person, male or female, who has neither a serious health issue, dependents nor an agreement about study. yet expects their partner to work to support them, is, spiritually speaking, little more than a parasite.
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  • As words can kill, the right to freedom of speech comes with a DUTY to be as well-informed, objective and balanced as you can be.
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Too much and too long, we seem to have surrendered community excellence and community values in the mere accumulation of material things. Our gross national product ... if we should judge America by that -- counts air pollution and cigarette advertising, and ambulances to clear our highways of carnage. ... Yet the gross national product does not allow for the health of our children, the quality of their education, or the joy of their play. It does not include the beauty of our poetry or the strength of our marriages; the intelligence of our public debate or the integrity of our public officials. It measures neither our wit nor our courage; neither our wisdom nor our learning; neither our compassion nor our devotion to our country; it measures everything, in short, except that which makes life worthwhile."
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Tags: bludging, children, family, neochristianity,  
First published: Wodansdagr, 4th June, 2014
Last edited (excluding fixing typo's and other minor matters): Wednesday, 4th June, 2014